How You Can Live Your Dreams And Goals

~By Paul Doria

When I started setting my own goals for the first time, I was so proud of it, that I even got to show it to my manager who happily brought it home. I even got to show it to some of my friends, family who didn’t think I could have my ideas, dreams, vision, plans for my way to success be seen in front of their eyes. That’s when I found my interest about sharing to set goals. 

After living my life over 13 years in Europe, and coming back to my home town, this was like a culture shock for me. I didn’t even know where my route brought me while I was on a taxi going to my friend’s apartment.  Now, picture your self working newly in a new town as delivery worker and being instruct to deliver your items in a newly house by a vehicle.  However, there are no street signs and you have no chart, diagram or a map and there are no street signs anywhere to see. As a matter of fact, all that you have with you is a very common description of the site, so discovering it would be difficult and a matter of luck.  Unluckily, this is exactly how many of us live our lives.

The majority of us begin our life journey without direction all the way through an invisible desires and the new world. This is the opposite of creating and building no life with no any proper plans and goals. These people plainly form things unaware as they walk along. Frequently, 5,10 or 20 years of working hard for somebody else’s ambition will past and many people are still poor or broke, dissatisfied with their career, unhappy in their marriage and bringing in little grow progress. Sadly, they still go home each night and focus on television, hoping and wishing and hoping tomorrow will get better. Often time this does not happen. Not by themselves.

Goals complete the highest needs of any human beings—a common sense and a typical purpose in life. One of the big advantages of goal-setting is that you may be in capable in controlling the directions of changing your life. To set goals is something that lets you work toward your desired result and ultimately accomplish it whether it’s for success or anything you could ever imagine. And that is the key to satisfaction, excitement and happiness in life.

“You alone are entirely responsible for who, what and where you are today, for it’s you alone who thinks, say and do which you totally have in control”-Paul Doria

 Going deeper into this subject as per research, it has been discovered in our gene that there is a control in determining different factors of our happiness or unhappiness in our life.  People with this gene (lucos) of control—typically people who do not set goals—feel dominated by external issues, by their managers, their relationships, their bills, their childhood concerns and their present condition. These are people who aren’t emotionally conditioned to be in control and are out of control, as the out come, they will feel weak, frustrated, angry, negative, fearful, un-friendly and un aware that they are out of control. In contrast people who manage to set goals frequently work with an inner locus of control— these are typically people who feel in a complete control, organized and in command of their lives. These are people who feel tough, strong, brave, confident and in command of their own deeds. These people are usually positive and optimistic. They feel great, remarkable about themselves and extremely much in command with their directions in life.

To begin with goal setting, you must be able to realize your virtual unlimited potential beyond your ultimate dreams or satisfaction, do or have anything and everything you really want to achieve in life where you want it so badly to dare enough and willing to make effort enough to accomplish it.

Now, asking you. What exactly do you want in life from your greatest imagination – where you can live it in reality? What, where and who do you really want to be or have in your one time life? Like I have said in my about page. I have found mine after 12 years, as I was blind to see it until to this sad point of my life where I know I am now much stronger deep inside to write this article for you. Continuously speak to your inner self and ask questions about your self again and again and never stop yet, until you figure it out no matter how long it takes. Remember it took me 12 years without knowing how to just like this post. As some said, you cannot hit the target if you cannot see it.

If you are one of those who do not know where to start, or having hard time to explore my other articles on different way of approach of how to do it, you might want to have Goalsontrack as a great excellent tools to start with.

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