Capture Your Joy

~By Paul Doria 

Happiness is precious moments that every single human must have in life because if you can’t be happy in your life then what else is there? Thinking about happiness, it’s a matter not every one give to them selves. Happiness is the opposite of treating depression, anxiety, obsessive, compulsive disorder and main core of a problems. If you ask many people if they are happy, most of the time or many of them may say “yes.”

But in reality the real answers are only what they know and not what they haven’t deeply ask their selves which they do not know yet. That is what I called the unseen trap deep inside this blissful response. The growth for development of joy is the purpose in life. In spite of this, no matter how you describe success, if your success doesn’t bring the measurement of achievement and happiness, It would not be valuable attaining. Now, what exactly is the type sort of success that would make a everyone really, honestly, permanently and deeply happy? People force us to believe that the external success is the key. When you create enough wealth, power, status, and all the other entrapment in career, you feel practiced in happiness. In this role, many of us would add also the feeling of a need for satisfying relationships and a certain family life.

This is exactly the e catch as the external success does not direct and show us the way to the true happiness. It has been said and perhaps you’ve heard it many times that for example;  that wealth shows that, from a certain wealth abundance, creating more riches not only you’ll be able to upgrade and buy greater pleasures of happiness; rather, it have a tendency to make people unhappy. – And many are already suffering on anxiety and depression about it.  Do you know  that Divorce rates are more than 49 percent which means that anybody who wants to have a happy endless marriage for life are nothing more  meaning that anyone’s chances of attaining a happy marriage are no more than luck.

It may be hard for some to understand this puzzling image; However, what I am trying to understand you in conclusion is that we are locked from external suffering of happiness, and as we grew up we can easily view other people’s pains which prove that having wealth and freedom are easily delicate and unreliable. Each one of us needs to confront this sort of unhealthy suffering such as, aging and death. And those are enough to weaken us from the comforts of our happy lifestyle which can be riot sometime and full of anxieties and fears.  So if you are dissatisfied and all you want is to have the happiness that nobody can take it away from you, then you must dig deeper inside your inner goals in life. – I am talking about the ultimate highest and untouchable happiness that may never be taken apart. This is an easy hard question depend on how you dig in your self. This is all about discovering your true self.  What I mean by “true self” is the degree of being aware you are happy without reasons for being happy.  That may sound unpleasant but, that is the real happiness of joy that get pleasure from an undying state of contentment. – Without the need of externals.  

Remember that money, wealth, positions, power or even in having more love you want, these are all nothing but reflections of your inner satisfaction of happiness-contentment. – Where most of us are after of a “satisfying” or a need of “want”. These are the nothing but externals of happiness; it is not the “CAUSE”.  Finding your “true self” straight forward as possible and “being grateful” (a person who focuses on something good not focusing on something bad) is the key and is just the right ingredients to happiness. And that is the highest meaning of success to what I know that can share. Now as mentioned earlier, ask yourself that if you can’t be happy all at, then what else is there?

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